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Nov 13 07 2:39 PM
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Emilie wrote: hannah kipje said: Try to see how your 'relationship' with James is completely apart from her relationship with James. It does not affect your 'relationship' with him at all. It makes absolutely no difference to your life whether he is married or not and to whom. I love this statement, Hannah! Sometimes I struggle with having a crush on a famous actor, and this advice definitely helps put it into a better perspective.
Try to see how your 'relationship' with James is completely apart from her relationship with James. It does not affect your 'relationship' with him at all. It makes absolutely no difference to your life whether he is married or not and to whom.
It helps in any other situation with jealousy as well.
The fact that someone sels is better at something does not make you less good. It makes you just as good as when they had not been there. It may means they win the first price that you could have won if they were not there, but winning first price in that case would not have made you better at whatever it was you were competing for then you already are.
(It just means their talent is a bit bigger than yours. That is a god given thing, so that is not their 'fault' so there is no reason to 'punish' them for it either)
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