Thank you guys. I wrote more about this before. I will see if I can find it back. I don't want obsessed fans on my board. They are mental patients and they end up stalking James or have delusions about how he loves them back. What I want is normal women like me who have the bad luck to have fallen for a celebrity. I mean, you don't choose to fall in love with him do you? But you can't help it. If you had fallen in love with the single neighbour it may have amounted to something, but this is just bad luck. So all we can do to make it bearable or even fun for ourselves is share it with other unlucky ladies so we don't have to be ashamed of how we feel or the natural 'interest' we have in every little thing about him and so we wont be accused of being 'obsessed fans' by people who have no idea what it is to have a celebrity crush and who do not see the difference (which is huge!)