mcavoyfan wrote:
You know you've got it bad for him when....

You realize it's been a year (Nov. 4th to be exact) since you've joined JMMB and you STILL visit it multiple times day yet your husband STILL has no idea of your crush.
Happy Anniversary to my crush! image
Congrats on your anniversary! image That's wonderful!

My crush is relatively new so I don't think my husband is aware of it...yet. Since I've ordered several DVDs recently and recorded several other movies on TV, when I insist on going to my first opening night movie, he may get the idea. I may have to ask one of my girl friends or my mom to go with me to that one. First time to experience James on the big screen, don't know that I want my husband to witness that, if you know what I mean. image

He knows about my crush on Harry Connick, Jr. I've had that one since before we were dating. Although it's not as serious as it was when I first discovered HCJ (and it was never as serious as the one I've had for JM the past 3 months image), my husband remembers and even tells me when HCJ is going to be on TV. That actually happened on our vacation last month. He told me that I'll want to watch Late Night with Conan...who I don't like much...and I got so excited b/c my first thought was James...then I realized he doesn't know about the James crush so it must be HCJ...and it was and I enjoyed it. HCJ is still a cutie...and a hottie, too! When he finds out about my James crush eventually, I hope my husband will be as understanding. He probably will be, as long as he doesn't find out how much time I've spent at JMMB. image

I felt kind of guilty -- being a married woman and having this major crush -- and I was wondering how many other married women are in the same situation. Sounds like there are more than I thought! Maybe someone should start a thread in the Members Only section for the married women dealing with our husbands (or significant others) and our crushes. image
Cheers image to all of us who are members of this board and share our thoughts and feelings with each other. image What a wonderful bunch of women (and a couple of men maybe?) to spend time with! image


Edited 1 time by bleu tulips Nov 7 08 5:08 PM.