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Nov 14 07 6:55 AM
Closet James Fan
Hannah...no I'm not jealous...envious maybe but I certainly don't/couldn't deserve James more than anyone else. My comment was simply that I didn't find her as attractive as perhaps I thought he might have as a wife/girlfriend. Haven't you ever had a conversation with someone where you said "How'd he ever end up with her?". I know I have. That is more along the lines of what I was talking about. Like I said, it's probably because I'm starting to regard him higher and higher (and probably not a good idea becoz' he is still a man) that I thought she wasn't pretty enough for him. She is attractive and that one pic with curly blonde hair is very pretty. I'm sure she looks better in person and some people just aren't as photogenic as others. Also, I was wondering if anyone on this board thought the same initial thought? Obviously, James chose her because he loves her and that's good enough for me. I was more worried for him (like that matters!) now he's getting these juicer roles, he'd be more tempted with all these gorgeous women. I so would like him to remain faithful to his craft, his self and his wife Ya know, I really should take a step back and not care so much...he's becoming an obsession Oh ...that brings up another thought...Paula saw James...did he look better in person??!!!
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Nov 14 07 7:25 AM
Canadian Sweetheart
evikeaz wrote: ...he's becoming an obsession
Totally off-topic, but I'm currently working on a psychology research essay and I just so happend to choose to focus on obsessive-compulsive disorder!!! It's SO interesting reading about all the different types of compulsions people have and how people can have either obsessions alone or compulsions alone and/or both together. I keep pinpointing things out and I just find it SO amusing, even though a lot of it is negative based... Thought I'd share that!
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Nov 14 07 7:29 AM
Queen of Green
evikeaz said: I didn't find her as attractive as perhaps I thought he might have as a wife/girlfriend...I was wondering if anyone on this board thought the same initial thought?
evikeaz said: It's probably because I'm starting to regard him higher and higher (and probably not a good idea becoz' he is still a man) that I thought she wasn't pretty enough for him.
Nov 14 07 7:31 AM
Larisie wrote: It's SO interesting reading about all the different types of compulsions people have and how people can have either obsessions alone or compulsions alone and/or both together.
It's SO interesting reading about all the different types of compulsions people have and how people can have either obsessions alone or compulsions alone and/or both together.
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Nov 14 07 10:40 AM
Evi........yes sweetie. At first I had that VERY thought. But after a short time of seeing them together and how perfectly matched they seemed together.....that thought faded. But it is OK......I personally do not think you are jealous or envious in an unhealthy way......you were just voicing your opinion. That's cool......nothing wrong with that. I too, have thought, man he is in these juicy scences with Ann Hathaway, Kieria Knightly, Jolie etc........I mean anyone would question that one. But beauty is more than just looks and they make a PRETTY pair......I think mainly because their LOVE is so REAL. Beauty fades.....REAL love doesn't. They're blessed.
You should in no way feel bad or be concerned. James is a HOTTIE.......but so are A LOT of other guy stars. He just so happens to capture us, his adoring fans in here, the most right now. As long as it is all innocent crushes.....it is all fine. That is just my thoughts to you on the issue.
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Nov 14 07 12:34 PM
Master of the House (Owner) Slighty delusional yet harmless builder of this board *grin*
PaulaJoW wrote: What the hell are you two talking about?? I said "Clear?" and Emilie said "Crystal". How did A Few Good Men get into the mix? haha Never mind.
What the hell are you two talking about?? I said "Clear?" and Emilie said "Crystal". How did A Few Good Men get into the mix? haha
Never mind.
I was being silly, because Crystal is also a name..
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Nov 14 07 3:59 PM
Existing just to kiss you Board Contributor
Lots of people are indifferent to James as far as the looks and being a sex symbol go. (I know - they just don't get it! ) Again, it leads back to that chemical thing and the cliche "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder".
I didn't think Anne Marie was a stunner when I first saw her either, but she's quite cute and I know she has a lot more to offer than just magazine-ready looks. This "thinking woman's sex symbol" is a thinker himself and he's not taken in by the superficial. Like I said in an earlier post - if he'd started dating Jessica Simpson, I'd be throwing up in a corner somewhere. It's bad enough that John Mayer stooped that low.
Nov 14 07 4:18 PM
Nov 14 07 8:49 PM
PaulaJoW wrote: Lots of people are indifferent to James as far as the looks and being a sex symbol go. (I know - they just don't get it! ) Again, it leads back to that chemical thing and the cliche "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". I didn't think Anne Marie was a stunner when I first saw her either, but she's quite cute and I know she has a lot more to offer than just magazine-ready looks. This "thinking woman's sex symbol" is a thinker himself and he's not taken in by the superficial. Like I said in an earlier post - if he'd started dating Jessica Simpson, I'd be throwing up in a corner somewhere. It's bad enough that John Mayer stooped that low.
Very good Paula..................I'd be throwing up right along side ya. Superficial is so FAKE. Ann Marie and James are obviously on the same page. Ditto thoughts on John Mayer.
Nov 14 07 10:21 PM
hannah kipje wrote: And I actually love it that he married a cute and smart woman instead of some blonde beauty queen.. makes us normal looking women believe we still have a change to find someone like James as well
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Nov 15 07 3:25 AM
Emilie wrote: Larisie wrote: It's SO interesting reading about all the different types of compulsions people have and how people can have either obsessions alone or compulsions alone and/or both together. What's the difference between an obsession and a compulsion, Lari?
Okay, so...Obsessions are defined as: persistent thoughts, impulses, or images that occur repeatedly and are experienced as intrusive, inappropriate, and distressing. Obsessions are anxiety provoking.
Compulsions are repetitive behaviours or mental acts that an individual feels compelled to perform in response to an obsession or according to rigid rules. Compulsions are excessive or unconnected in a realistic way to the event and are aimed to prevent. Compulsions normally follow obsession.
There yah go!!! Also, if anyone is interested, there is an article in Blag magazine Vol. 2 No. 9 with Anne-Marie Duff in it. I think this may only be released internationally and unavailable to us Canadians/Americans. It's possible she mentions James in it.
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PaulaJoW wrote: Who are you calling "normal looking"??? I'm cute as hell!
Takes one to know one..........................
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